There is a universal need we have as humans. We all need community. We cannot thrive or grow without it. Some mental health studies have shown that the number one factor in getting over childhood trauma which follows us into adulthood is to be in a safe and caring community over a long period of time. As important as counseling is, if we don’t have it coupled with a safe, supportive environment, healing is less likely.
To encourage followers of Jesus towards true, authentic community, at Ladner Baptist Church we are starting a summer series called “One Another.” We are looking at various Scripture passages which prod us to: love one another, care for one another, carry one another’s burdens, forgive one another, be patient with one another, honour one another, live in harmony with one another... Those are just a few.
We often don’t get it right. If you are like me, your most natural bent is to look out for yourself first. I am sometimes insecure and awkward at loving. And yet, the goal God has for me and for you is that we would allow him to transform us into a people who are continually growing in our capacity to love. I am more loving and mature today than I was a year ago (you might want to check with my wife on that one), and next year at this time I expect to have grown more.
There are no perfect people in the church. We are all under construction. Let’s be patient and compassionate with ourselves and each other in the process.
