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Pink Shirt Day: Elder abuse is real

If you think someone you know is being abused — physically, emotionally, or financially — talk with him or her when the two of you are alone.
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Scared and maltreated senior woman with big bruises.

Abuse can happen to anyone — no matter the person's age, sex, race, religion, ethnic or cultural background. Elder abuse impacts people over 65 years of age who are abused, neglected, or financially exploited.

Elder abuse can happen in many places, including the older person's home, a family member's house, in assisted living, or in long-term care. The mistreatment of older adults can be by family members, strangers, health care providers, caregivers, or friends.

Physical abuse happens when someone causes bodily harm by hitting, pushing, or slapping.

Emotional abuse, sometimes called psychological abuse, can include a caregiver saying hurtful words, yelling, threatening, or repeatedly ignoring the older adult.

Neglect occurs when the caregiver does not try to respond to the older adult's needs. This may include physical, emotional, and social needs, or withholding food, medications, or access to health care.

Abandonment is leaving an older adult who needs help alone without planning for his or her care.

Sexual abuse involves a caregiver forcing an older adult to watch or be part of sexual acts.

Financial abuse happens when money or belongings are stolen from an older adult. It can include forging checks, taking someone else's retirement benefits, or using a person's credit cards and bank accounts without their permission. It also includes changing names on a will, bank account, life insurance policy, or title to a house without permission.

Elder abuse in any form is wrong. Unfortunately, some seniors suffer from abuse and neglect, sometimes from caregivers or family members. Abuse can take many forms, such as physical, sexual, emotional, financial, or spiritual.

Neglect and self-neglect are also forms of abuse. Self-neglect happens when a senior lives in a way that puts his or her own health, safety, or well-being at risk.

Elder abuse will not stop on its own. Someone else needs to step in and help. Many older adults are too ashamed to report mistreatment. Or, they're afraid if they make a report it will get back to the abuser and make the situation worse.

If you think someone you know is being abused — physically, emotionally, or financially — talk with him or her when the two of you are alone. You could say you think something is wrong and you're worried. Offer to take him or her to get help.