Editor:
I can’t imagine many would expect to see Tupac quoted in the Optimist, but I’ll leave it to you to look up the Tupac coined acronym for THUG LIFE for some context to my reflection.
The idea that hate is learned has been on my mind as I try to explain to my three-year-old daughter and five-year-old son why it is that the windows of churches are being smashed and pride flags vandalized on a recurring basis (Optimist, Aug. 15).
I live directly behind the Ladner United Church, and I’ve lost count of the number of hateful incidences that have occurred. These cowardice acts are repulsive, and articles will continue to be written reflecting the overwhelming consensus and support of the Ladner community for all people – but what I’m becoming increasingly aware of is the hate that you are teaching our young people.
Whoever you are, your senseless acts are not communicating what you hope they would – they are simply teaching kids how to hate. If you were truly proud of the noble mission you were on, you’d perform these acts in the middle of the day – not disguised in the dark of night. What kind of legacy do you hope to leave?
In our home you’re known as the person who teaches us what hate looks like. You my friend are hard to love, but I’m choosing to teach my children that even you are worthy of it.
I wish for you a future that can embrace that love for yourself and others.”
Riley Merrell
